HOW TO CONTROL YOURSELF AND INFLUENCE OTHERS
A GUIDE TO ACHIEVING HAPPINESS THROUGH LIVING YOUR LIFE CONSCIOUSLY
We spend a great deal of our time living the fallacy that we can control others ignoring the reality that the only person over whom we can ever have complete control is ourselves.
Short of tyranny, you can never control others. However, you can learn strategies to increase your influence. In this way, you become a leader.
Excellent leadership begins with self-leadership, which is about exercising self-control and making high-quality choices.
In this course, you will learn how to master your choices so that you consistently choose the path of high-level choices instead of the low-level substitutes that many people take out of ignorance and through reactive living.
In the Torah we are commanded to choose life (Deuteronomy 30:19). Our lives are formed of constant opportunities to make choices. We choose not only what to buy, wear and eat, we also choose what to think, how to feel and what to say.
This course blends timeless Jewish wisdom with coaching themes, teaching you how to live your life consciously and reach true fulfillment by opening your eyes to the perfect control you have over your own happiness. You will learn to identify the different classes in which your behaviours fall, the universal human needs your actions are attempting to meet and examine the varying levels of happiness, where you learn to distinguish between genuine and perceived happiness.
Ultimately this course will teach you to make empowering choices and to live life intentionally and consciously.
Choosing this course indicates your ambition to live your life consciously and your striving for the fulfillment and contentment that comes from consistently productive behaviours. It demonstrates your search for tools to help you function at your best.
And it is the first of many excellent choices that you will soon be making.
Devorah Rabinowitz
INTRODUCTION
FULL COURSE WORKBOOK
WORKSHEET 1 FOUR CLASSES
WORKSHEET 2 LEVEL OF LIVING
IDENTIFYING THE FOUR CLASSES OF BEHAVIOUR
WHERE'S YOUR CLASS? SUMMARY AND ACTION
'Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.' - Viktor Frankl
INTRODUCTION
WORKSHEET 3 SIX NEEDS
EXPLAINING THE SIX HUMAN NEEDS
SURVIVE OR THRIVE: SUMMARY AND ACTION
'Underneath every bad behavior, is a positive intent, to protect, to prevent or to provide.'
INTRODUCTION
THE ULTIMATE GOAL: TRUE HAPPINESS
WORKSHEET 4 FIVE LEVELS OF PLEASURE
MATERIAL
EMOTIONAL
MORAL
CREATIVE
SPIRITUAL
SUMMARISING THE FIVE LEVELS OF PLEASURE
LIVING WITH INTENTION: SUMMARY AND ACTION
"Most men pursue pleasure with such breathless haste that they hurry past it.' - Søren Kierkegaard
INTRODUCTION
MEETING MORE THAN THREE CORE NEEDS
THE RIGHT CHOICE
WORKSHEET 5 PROBLEMS
PROBLEMS
WORKSHEET 6 PIECING IT TOGETHER
PIECING IT TOGETHER
PRIMARY NEED
FOCUS
CERTAINTY
VARIETY
SIGNIFICANCE
LOVE AND CONNECTION
GROWTH
CONTRIBUTION
CHOOSING LIFE: COURSE SUMMARY AND ACTION